Giving and Asking for Criticism and Advice

Created by John Tringham / Zappa blammaAs I progress up the ranks and my jiu jitsu slowly improves, I find myself in the more peaceful but less productive position of not being criticized, corrected, or given advice to nearly as often as when I was a white belt. I was reminded of this today when after rolling with a high-level black belt who I’m friends with (let’s call him Bob) he politely suggested that the way I was turtling up was leaving me open for back takes and crucifixes. This little suggestion means that there was a clear hole in my game, that I either have to close or be aware of and be ready to defend when needed. These are things that can take 2-3 years to figure out WITHOUT such advice. The power of a quick comment on a brain that’s ready to learn the lesson is incredible.

I was left wondering how I can get others to give such advice to me. This advice is not saying “I am wiser and superior to you in jiu jitsu”. The advice is just one diagnosis of a potential jiu jitsu malady that should be addressed. It’s a gift really. When I give the same types of advice to fellow purple belts, blue belts, or white belts, I often feel like an asshole. They may awkwardly nod back in appreciation, but it always feels as if they’re just being polite.

For many people taking privates is the clearest way to get this kind of advice. But does it have to be this way? Especially for people like me who train regularly and compete regularly?

Whenever a person gives me advice I try very hard to implement that advice in training right away and show it to them. I want them to know that every little word of criticism has a profound positive affect on my game, especially when it address a problem I was clearly having. I know that when I teach, it always feels good seeing others successfully implementing the things I taught. As a student, I feel it’s almost a duty of mine to learn well and make the lesson bloom into a well-defined success.

More and more, I’m realizing that what I’m searching for in jiu jitsu is not some secret detail but the rediscovery for the 100th time of the same old details I’ve been shown over and over since white belt.

So, all that said, if when you train with me an idea pops into your head based on a mistake or opening I left behind, please tell me. I will try my best to return the favor.

Be Careful: Five Ways to Hurt Others in Jiu Jitsu Training

To me, one of the biggest parts of jiu jitsu is staying healthy and avoiding injury. In some cases, being overly cautious in trying to avoid injury can actually have the opposite effect of putting you at greater risk of it. Jiu jitsu at times, like much of life, can be a cruel counter-intuitive mistress. The way I approach it: I try to relax, quiet my ego, and focus on not hurting my training partners, and hope that they return the favor.

There are some things I noticed that I do (and others do to me) that can lead to injury (large or small). So let’s all agree to be careful with those things and use common sense. Here are five of them:

  • Jump closed guard really suddenly from semi-standing exchanges such as when your partner comes up for a single. His lower back or legs might be a little relaxed and thus vulnerable to be hurt due to suddenly having to carry all your body weight. When training from the feet, most people (especially non-competitors) don’t expect you to jump guard or jump anything really. They expect you to either go for a takedown or to pull guard by sitting with a foot in the hip or some other variation of that.
  • Wristlocks: I know that footlocks get a bad rep in jiu jitsu for being potentially dangerous, but I find that people are actually TOO cautious with footlocks in gyms where their danger has been drilled into people’s heads since day 1. On the other hand, wristlocks are not taught very often (even though they are legal in most divisions of most tournaments in both gi and no-gi). And when they are taught, they are not talked about as something that could potentially lead to injury. I don’t know anyone who broke their wrist due to a wristlock, but I do know MANY people that had to be out for 1-2 weeks due to a wristlock and after that still had to take it easy with the wrist for a couple months. It’s a great submission, but be careful when you apply it in training.
  • Guillotines: This had to make the list, of course. The problem with the guillotine is that it has an evil brother: the neck crank. The other problem with the guillotine is that often times if you don’t finish it, you are putting yourself in a less-than-dominant position. So you really want to finish it! But sometimes the technique is a little off and you want to add a little “sauce” by pulling up. And guess what: that cranks the neck. This isn’t a problem really, except that a little tweak of the neck can often leads to pain for weeks. There’s no reason for this. On this one technique I’ll often tap a little early in training, even though I don’t like doing it. And when I’m applying the guillotine, I try hard NOT to crank the neck. If that means I don’t get the submission, I’m okay with that.
  • Pulling the Turtle Backwards: A tight turtle can be a frustrating position to break open, and one of the ways that seems to intuitively make sense to people is to pull the person directly backwards over his ankles. This can actually be an effective technique (with some important details) but it’s also an asshole technique that you should save for competition-style training when anything effective goes. Like most dangerous techniques, they are less likely to cause injury when your training partner is going close to 100% and thus are more physically and mentally primed for a wider range of possibilities.
  • Try Stuff You Don’t Know with the Spazzy Intensity of a Raging Bull: I would say that 90% of my training is about figuring out small details around techniques that I’m already very familiar with. That requires a little exploration: figuring out the timing, feel, and leverage of the technique. But sometimes, I explore beyond the confines of what I know, and their I proceed with caution. I know that I can hurt myself and others. I have the luxury to proceed with caution, because there are always things I can fall back on. Of course, folks that are just starting out don’t have that luxury, since most every technique and position is new. The right approach, therefore, when you start to jiu jitsu is to relax, learn, and explore with caution. The best way to halt your progress in jiu jitsu is to be forced off the mat for months due to a stupid injury.

One of the lessons I’ve learned about training is you have to be very good at reading your training partners. You have to consider their rank, their style, their current mental state, and whether they are preparing for a tournament. It’s a complicated social interaction that takes a long time to learn. This is why beginner white belts are usually the most dangerous: they are not very good at reading these subtle social cues.

Attacking from the Turtle Position

I’ve been slowly studying the matches of the 2011 Worlds, and was floored by this match:

I’ve never heard of Eduardo Telles before, but after a little research into it, it was clear that I was missing out on one of the most innovative jiu jitsu practitioners out there. He transformed the turtle position from a defensive one into an attacking one.

On a practical level, his instructional on the turtle guard gives me a better understanding of what to do in turtle position. Most academies teach the basics of the closed guard, half guard, side control, mount, etc, but few teach the basics of the turtle “guard”.

It seems that it’s always easier to improve my position by distracting my opponent with sweep and submission attempts. Nowhere is that more useful than the turtle position.

However, in a more general sense, his success in transforming the turtle position has made me realize that it’s possible to develop a complete (defensive and offensive) system around many positions which traditionally are considered to be undesirable. For example, from the butterfly position, it’s generally a good idea to not get flattened out on your back, but more and more, I’m learning that this may not always be true. Depending on the athleticism and body type of my opponent, there are times when I can be more dangerous when I’m flat on my back.

Then again, I’m always skeptical investing time into techniques that I have not seen pulled off successfully at the black belt level in competition. That’s why it’s always exciting to see someone like Eduardo Telles find success with a revolutionary approach to an underestimated position.

Check it out as he pulls and plays turtle guard successfully against Andre Galvao:

Clock Choke vs Back Take

When I was a young lad of 26 (two years ago), all I knew of jiu jitsu was the clock choke. It’s one of the most effective attacks on the ground in judo because in the transition from standing to ground there’s an opportunity to get the proper lapel grip and hit the clock choke right away as the opponent begins to turtle.

A year and a half ago I started learning jiu jitsu. The more I learned, the more my view of attacking the turtle changed. The sports jiu jitsu game is very different in this aspect (as well as many others) to the sports judo game. In bjj:

  1. You have more time (the ref won’t stand you up)
  2. You get points for taking the back (putting both hooks in)
  3. The opponent is less defensive, more dynamic, so there’s room to capitalize on gripping / submission openings

With that in mind, I’ve noticed myself thinking less and less about the clock choke when faced with an opponent in the turtle position, and more and more thinking “back take”. First, take the back, control the position, and then work for the submission.

This is why when Jared Weiner taught the clock choke yesterday right when the opponent turtles to avoid the pass, I was surprised how much I instinctively wanted to instead take the back. The positioning of the body for the two techniques is very different. For taking the back, I make myself into a “backpack”, tight on the person, but not applying huge pressure, and moving with him. While for the clock choke I have to pin him down (especially the near shoulder) with a lot of pressure from my hip.

It’s funny how the judo guy inside me is always fighting the jiu jitsu guy. I think there is a lot to learn from both disciplines, and neither should be neglected for a competitor in grappling sports.

Here are some clips from the training session two nights before that.
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As always, thanks to BJJ United for great training and instruction (Jared, Wilson, Sharon, etc). Friend them on Facebook!

Early Morning Training with Ray

If it’s before noon, it’s early morning in the Lex Fridman brain.

Ray and I got on the mat at Osagame to do a little training. Turned out to be a good two hours. Here’s a few clips from that session.

I asked Ray about a couple of issues that I’ve been running up against:

  1. Defending the sweep from De La Riva guard
  2. Defending the bull pass from the butterfly guard
  3. Escaping side control to turtle
  4. Reguarding to half guard or full guard from turtle

Then we trained. I enjoy (in a sick masochistic way) playing half guard or butterfly guard against Ray, because he makes it very difficult to do anything from either. He stays very low and applies a lot of pressure.

Once he passes, he consistently gets the choke within about a minute. I need to find an answer besides just turtling and then trying to reguard from turtle. The answer probably is just the fundamentals: create space and reguard. Given how tight his game is, this will require a lot of improvement for me.