Different Ways to Get Better: If You Don’t Eat Your Meat, You Can’t Have Any Pudding

One of the mistakes that people make (in my opinion) when they go in to drill is to work on new stuff that they don’t quite yet know how to do. At first glance it makes perfect sense: “I already know how to do a knee cut pass, but I saw this great calf slicer on YouTube that I would like to figure out”. Calf slicer is pudding, the knee cut pass is the meat. And if you don’t eat your meat, you can’t have any pudding:

Seven Ways To Grow Your Game

When I say “drill” I’m referring to a 1 hour or longer session between two people (or any even number of people) outside of class where you don’t say more than 5-10 words the whole time. I think it’s important to clarify where “drilling” fits into the bigger picture of your training.

  1. Class Session: You practice a technique taught by the instructor with the primary goal being figuring out the details of the technique. Your partner and the instructor are there to help you figure it out. This is important for your growth both when many of the techniques taught take you out of your comfort zone or when they show details you looked over in the past.
  2. Shoot the Shit Session: People that train jiu jitsu (or judo) are interesting people, humble, smart, and almost funny. So when you’re done getting your ass kicked for an hour in training, you’ll often talk for a while about anything and everything usually completely unrelated to jiu jitsu. This is important for your growth because it’s relaxing and inspiring like a shot of vodka with a close friend, and though it can be destructive when taken to excess, in small earned doses, it’s essential.
  3. Technique Psychoanalysis Session: Often after rolling you don’t fall right into the “shoot the shit” mode, but instead grab a zoned-out purple belt or above, and talk about a technique that you’ve been working on or just thinking about. This is the time when you first start figuring out the details. This is what you’ll often (naturally) try to do during a drilling session, but show NEVER do during a drilling session (until perhaps the end).
  4. Watch Instructionals: We live in an age where you have hundreds of world-class black belts at your fingertips waiting to give you advice about the latest technique you’ve been working on. Seriously, if you are not watching instructional videos, you’re missing out on one of the best ways to improve your game.
  5. Watch Competition Footage: This is homework. No question about it. That’s coming from a guy (me) who enjoyed a majority of the homework I was assigned throughout high school and college. But still, it’s homework. You’re not watching matches for fun, you’re watching to pick up details, styles, movements, etc.
  6. Drilling Session: A focused quiet time to get 50 to 1000 reps of a technique that you know how to do well enough to get the details right without pausing to think about it. It should be a good solid hour, or if you have balls of steel, you can do 90 minutes to two hours. My record so far is 70 minutes. Trust me, if you’re doing it right, you should be exhausted (physically and mentally) to death by the 60 minute mark.
  7. Compete: There is no better way to waste (I mean spend) a weekend and a lot of money and risk serious injury than the glorious experience of competition. Seriously, there are a million excuses not to do it, just like marriage, just like pursuing your dreams, just like life in general. But it’s f’ing worth it in a romantic kind of way.

Learn It Before You Drill It

Before a technique graduates to the drilling session it must first go through a few class and/or psychoanalysis sessions (#1 and #3 above). There are some exceptions of course. I think that you can reward yourself with “pudding” after a long session of “meat”. (That’s what she said). Throw in a new technique at the end of a drilling session. Almost flow drill it, slowly ironing out the details as you go. Like I said this is fun stuff, and I wouldn’t call it drilling, but it’s good to do at the end of a drilling session, and if your training partner is a wise higher rank, it’s a nice opportunity to psychoanalyze the new technique.

By the way, when I say that drilling sessions ought to be quiet, I don’t mean it has to have no talking. But the talking can never interfere with the intensity and the flow of the drilling. Sometimes it’s too much to just grind out the reps, and a little joke or comment here and there will help out a bit.

Whenever I write about drilling, I’ll start writing about one thing and end up writing about another. There are so many points to hit. I think writing blog posts about drilling is a kind of drilling in itself

 

2012 Will Be a Big Year for the IBJJF

The International Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Federation (IBJJF) is the biggest game in town for top notch gi and no-gi jiu-jitsu competition. Grapplers Quest, NAGAUS Grappling and others often attract big names, but only the IBJJF can bring out all the big names and produce stacked divisions of the world’s best grapplers from white belt to black belt.

(PS: I know that WPJJC has been growing like crazy, but I feel like they still haven’t gotten their stuff together, with missing trials dates and chaos in the registration process. Maybe 2013 will be their year.)

Anyway, there are two reasons I’m excited about IBJJF enough to write this blog post at 3am at night. The first is the release of the first edition of their rule book. It’s more thorough and visually clear than any rule book I’ve ever read. It makes me excited for the sport since they are taking every little aspect seriously. This is the kind of progress that’s required for IBJJF to become not just an American and Brazilian success, but an international success.

The second reason I’m excited is that they’ve added a lot of new tournaments to the calendar:

  • European Open (Jan 26)
  • Houston Open (Feb 11)
  • San Fran Open (Feb 25)
  • Chicago Open (Mar 3)
  • Pans (Mar 29)
  • NY Open (April 21)
  • Worlds (Jun 1)
  • Asian Open (Oct 13)

See you on the mat!

 

A Power Nap with a Message: You Must Win

Okay, I just took a 30 minute nap, and had a strangely vivid dream. I don’t usually have dreams, or at least don’t remember them, so I wanted to jot it down.

I was laying on the mat in my gi, sweating and tired. And the gym was empty except for one of my coaches who was also in a sweaty gi but not at all tired. The dream lasted like 5 seconds, and it was just him saying (with noticeable disapproval): “Stop f***ing around. You must win.”

I’m not sure where that came from, especially the “you must win” part, but I think it might be from a video of Ilias Iliadis I saw two weeks ago that really impressed me:

Anyway, I got up, made another coffee and wrote this post. Now I’m back to work.

Having a dream like that is probably a sign (as if I needed one) that I’m mentally invested in this game. For me, it’s a hobby of course, I’m still just a scientist, but it’s also becoming a way of life and a philosophy.

Fighting the Good Fight

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I competed at one the The Good Fight BJJ tournaments today. I went 4 and 2, losing to the same guy twice in the finals of my weight division and the absolute. That adds up to two silver medals.

Below is a picture of me being not very happy about receiving one of those silver medals. A positive way to look at my performance is to say that no one scored points on me the entire tournament (my losses were by submission), and I stayed on top the entire time. However, how I actually feel is that I lacked confidence on the feet and in passing guard, letting my opponent dictate how the match went. It’s good to be patient, but I wish I open up a lot more.

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Overall, it was a good experience.

It certainly feels like I don’t compete enough. I put too much pressure on myself to win, and as a result sometimes I don’t get the necessary quantity of competition matches required to gain comfort with the level of intensity that is characteristic of competition.

I’m hesitant to shoot in. I’m hesitant to pass the way I know I should, and the way I have many times before. Why? Because I don’t want to take the risk. But taking risks is part of learning and is an essential requisite of gaining confidence in the power of technique. For example, I am only now gaining confidence in the knee-cut pass that has for the longest time felt very vulnerable to me. I just didn’t believe it could work, even though it kept working over and over.

This post is already way to long… There are three competitions in August, but for the rest of July (as of now) there’s nothing! The last several tournaments have revealed a few problems in my game, so July is all about fixing those problems!

How Much Does it Cost To Compete

I’ve done about 30-40 local tournaments in the last 2 years, so I figured I’d reminisce about all the money I spent in that time. There are a bunch of costs to consider, and it always varies, but I wanted to put some numbers up so that people that are looking to compete for the first time are aware of it, and save up ;-) Also, I know I still pretend to myself that a competition is no more than an entry fee, when in reality the entry fee is often less than half the cost. So this post is also for myself and others in similar situations to help in financially planning for these events. In this post the focus is on “local” tournaments that are 2-3 hours away from where I live. Multi-day tournaments you have to fly to are on a whole another level financially.

For the purpose of this post, I assume I’m going to a competition in New York City from Philadelphia. I’m weighing in the night before, and staying over night. Later, I’ll discuss how that cost can be cut down. The cost is based on my experience.

  • Entry fee (for two divisions, second is usually about half price)
    • $60-100, but let’s say $80
  • Travel
    • Gas: $30 (source)
    • Tolls: $30 (source)
    • Car rental (2 days): $80
  • Hotel
    • $110
  • Food afterwards (to celebrate)
    • $20

So, here are the total costs depending on how many people are going to split the travel and hotel:

  • You go alone: 80+30+30+80+110+20=$350
  • 2 people: $225
  • 3 people: $183
  • 4 people: $163

Going the same day removes the cost of one day’s car rental and hotel. The total cost then is:

  • You go alone: 80+30+30+40+20=$200
  • 2 people: $150
  • 3 people: $133
  • 4 people: $125

There are several objections you might have to the above numbers. First, you might say, “but I already have a car”. I find that when multiple people go, you should really treat it as a cheap rental and contribute at least some money to the driver over what the gas and tolls cost. But certainly, if someone already has a car, it turns out cheaper.

Second, you might say that you can easily save the $20 for food by not going out afterwards. In my experience, going out afterwards is an essential part of unwinding after a tournament, gathering your thoughts, and talking about what you learned and have to work on. But also it’s just good for bonding. Nothing forms friendships like being in “battle” together.

The above might seem like a lot of money. Probably because most people think of the cost of a tournament as just the entry fee. I don’t mean to discourage you from competing. But you have to be realistic and plan your finances accordingly, so that you don’t feel like the whole experience was not worth what you ended up paying for it.

The moral of the story for me is that going with 4 people is the best idea. I prefer going the night before so that weight is not an issue. Also it makes the whole experience more like a road trip if you go the night before.

Two Goals for 2011

Being an OCD analytically minded person who keeps detailed notes and stats on most aspects of my life, I like to set quantitative goals. This way I have a precise way (there’s that OCD again) of keeping track of my progress toward that goal.

Last year I put some numbers up for judo as goals and was able to hit all of them (100 matches in competition, most notably). I’m not a big fan of setting goals for winning or “quality” goals. I’m all about quantity, the hours on the mat, day after day. So here are my judo and jiu jitsu related goals for 2011. At the end of each month I’ll post about my progress toward each of these.

  • 600 hours training on the mat
  • 100 matches in competition

I’ve hit the second goal last year, and if the last two months is an indication, then I can do 600-800 hours. So the goals are reasonable, but tough.

Outside the numbers, my main goal is to have fun training and learning. I’ve met a lot of exceptional people through jiu jitsu and judo. My allegiance, my love, and my loyalty is to the sport and the people that share my passion for it. Here’s to a great 2011 for all my fellow grapplers in Philadelphia and the world.

As a side note to the few friends (Matt) that stuck by me all these years, and new friends, please understand that achieving the above goals while pursuing the main calling and passion of my life (research in computer science) is a constant scheduling nightmare. Thank you for being there, supporting this madness, and not holding my obvious flaws against me.